I got the idea for this article a while ago when I had reached the hundred couple mark, but I thought that because it had been so many years since I was in a relationship of my own, that I didn’t have the authority to write it. I was wrong. One of my great loves is dancing. And every dance teacher I’ve ever had asks their students to watch the choreography first before trying the dance. There is so much that we can learn through watching, listening, taking it all in. Things we miss if we don’t have our eyes open to the big picture. If there is any reason why God has graced me with the gift of witnessing and being close to love as it takes so many beautiful and different forms in all the couples I meet, I hope that it may be to teach me something of what it is, share its blessing and guide my own steps in its sacred dance.